Sunday, May 15, 2011

My Heart Weeps

...for my three precious furry babies. It has been a year of loss for the Riggio family.

On March 13, 1997, Sydney arrived in this world and was destined to be adopted by a great family. At six weeks old, I welcomed my little fur ball into my heart and will never let her go. I still remember her being tossed around by Leo, his big kitty brother, and how the two of them absolutely adored each other. Sydney was was my saving grace. In one of the lowest times of my life, she kept me going. I always say I owe my life to her and I truly believe she knew I needed her when the times were rough. It was just her, me and Leo for so long. Although I do not miss the puppy phase, which included ripped carpet, pee puddles in the house, and shredded door jambs, I remember every stage of her life fondly. Man did I love that girl! On February 10, I held Sydney for the last time as she drifted off to heaven.

15 years ago I adopted my precious Leo (short for Leonard) when he wandered into my grandparents yard and would not go away. He was my first fur baby and the apple of my eye. Leo was a spunky kitty who loved to find new hiding places and cherished every moment with his mommy. He was unlike any other cat I had ever met; more a human than an animal. I still remember how he hated other cats and was terrified to be outside. He found comfort in cuddling on my pillow each night and absolutely adored our boys. On April 20, I said good-bye to my beloved kitty. I always said he would live forever, but in my heart I knew that wasn't to be.

And last, but certainly not least.....Angie. One the most strong willed critters I've ever known. Angie came into my life when I least expected it. Angie was originally Jim's dog but if you ask her she would probably say she belonged to me. Jim and I had been dating a few weeks when Angie came to live with me; the summer of 1998. I wouldn't have had it any other way. She was a welcome addition for Sydney and Leo and they all got along like brothers and sisters would. Angie was the dominant one of the bunch. She took pride in bossing everyone around and putting them in their place. I still remember how Angie would open packages and pretty much destroy anything if you simply told her to "get it." For the several years that Jim and I lived apart, Angie and Sydney would travel with me between Bakersfield and Atascadero. I vividly remember how Angie always had to have the front seat and if I didn't roll the window down, how she would always blow snot all over my dash while sniffing in the air from the vent. She loved cows and would gladly cross a pasture to get to one. Of course she would run right back when she realized just how big they were. On May 10, exactly three months after losing Sydney, Angie joined her fur-siblings in heaven.

Oh how my heart aches for my girls and my Leo kitty. Those two ladies were the love of my life. They were my kids before I had kids. And Leo....he was my soul. He understood me and knew exactly what I needed. I have peace in knowing that they are all together again but am angry that they all left me so quickly. My life will be forever blessed by these three creatures of God; my babies; my companions; my friends.


"To have loved and then said farewell, is better than to have never loved at all.
For all of the times that you have stooped and touched my head, fed me my favorite treat and returned the love that I so unconditionally gave to you.
For the care that you gave to me so unselfishly.
For all of these things I am grateful and thankful.

I ask that you not grieve for the loss, but rejoice in the fact that we lived, loved and touched each others lives. My life was fuller because you were there, not as a master/owner, but as my FRIEND.

Today I am as I was in my youth. The grass is always green, butterflies flit among the flowers and the Sun shines gently down upon all of God's creatures.
I can run, jump, play and do all of the things that I did in my youth. There is no sickness, no aching joints and no regrets and no aging.

We await the arrival of our lifelong companions and know that togetherness is forever.
You live in our hearts as we do in yours. Companions such as you are so rare and unique.
Don't hold the love that you have within yourself. Give it to another like me and then I will live forever. For love never really dies, and you are loved and missed as surely as we are. "

Your Pets In Heaven









Sunday, December 26, 2010

Birthday and a Baptism

It was an honor for Jim to share his birthday today with one of the newest members of our family of friends. We joined Cristina and her family to celebrate the baptism of her daughter Lillian Andrea. Lilli looked absolutely beautiful in her gown and was well behaved during the ceremony; not expected from an almost two month old. We are both blessed to have these two ladies in our lives.


Cristina and Lilli

Cristina with her mom and grandmother - 4 generations of strong women

My precious Lilli - oh how I love her



Happy 47th Birthday Jim - we all love you!!



A Rarity

With three little boys, it is a rare occasion that all three look absolutely adorable (aka "perfect") in any picture. Imagine my shock as I snapped this one in front of our tree. I truly am blessed with three perfect little boys!
After six months and a very crazy life, I've finally made my New Years resolution a week early. For 2011, I am back to blogging. Although I cannot guarantee daily updates, I am committed to updating everyone on our family at least once per week. I realize just how much we have going on and just how little time I have to call everyone and keep them aprised of our lives with a family of three little boys. Cheers to the new year and what 2011 will bring us.

Friday, August 6, 2010

8th Birthday Excitement

For the past week, Joshua has been excited to know what his "surprise" was for his birthday. Seeing as Dominic was with me when we picked it out, he was even more excited (or maybe I was) that he was able to keep a secret this long. Unfortunately, poor little Dommy thought that Joshua's gift was a "family" gift and that he got to share. Needless to say, Joshua is not the sharing type when it comes to his 5 year old brother. Words cannot express just how excited Joshua was when he opened his gift and found a Nintendo DS!! "FINALLY" he shouted. And since he didn't ask for one it was fun to watch his eyes light up.

Jim was nice enough to take both Joshua and Dominic to see Dispicable Me in 3-D....thank goodness because I probably wouldn't have gotten sick! We finished the evening with a special party at our local Sushi place (of course the boys ate Pizza from next door) accompanied by Uncle Jake. Thanks to everyone who called and sent cards to my big boy. He is so proud to now officially be 8!

Poor, poor, Dominic. He straightened up quickly!





Jake and Matty

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Happy Birthday, Joshua

Eight years ago today, something great happened....the Riggio's officially became a family with the birth of our oldest son Joshua. As we celebrate the Big 8 today, we relish in not only Joshua's 8th year of life, but our 8th year as parents. Happy Birthday Joshua. Words cannot express just how lucky we are to share this special day with you!

Playing like a Pro

Last weekend, Jim got to fulfill a dream of his that has been on his "bucket list" of sorts for many years. Jim plays on a local baseball team and was invited to play a game at Giants Stadium and Joshua went along for the ride. It was not a "free" trip by any means, but the cost was not an issue since the opportunity to play on a professional baseball field was a priceless experience for him. Joshua was able to play bat boy and for me, as a mom, I am so happy to see father and son get to share this experience together. They both had a blast!

To top off the experience, Jim provided the walk off hit that scored two runs and ended the game.....at the bottom of the 9th Inning with 2 outs. How special is that?